Judging by this fact, the recommended course of action is to hire the services of a specialized company, a firm that will take care of all the details and subtleties of the spreadsheet programming in your place, and provide you with a ready-made or tailor-made spreadsheet solution that outperforms your expectations.
You could make money doing something you love (or like [or maybe not so much but just really good at]). It's great to see a spreadsheet come together, and usually a lot better than what you originally envisioned. Especially when the dang thing works.
You'll need to find a way to make your spreadsheet accessible. You can build a website, which will require paying for a domain, hosting, site security, dealing with an internet transaction service, graphic design, content for the website, marketing your website, Search Engine Optimization, and all the other madness that comes with managing a site.
You may also want to track your current spending on one sheet with columns for different categories. Some individuals will list the budgeted amount in one column and then list the actual amount spent in the column next to it.